Give me the rock! I just found out that there are people who actually surf here in Oregon. I made so many new friends and it seemed like everyday we were going on some new adventure. I just got back from Chile and the people there were so cool and interesting. Me: I get an exploration energy from you. I’m a hippy at heart and a satisfying, natural meal leaves me feeling so peaceful.Ī: Be quiet for a second and let her choose how to respond. I love healthy, organic stuff like baked tofu and a salad. One thing that helps me relax is a good meal. I can get so busy with things that I forget to relax. Me: Nice! That reflects a balanced attitude, must be one reason why you radiate such a good energy. (vacuum) It really relaxes me and I can disconnect from the world. Her: Hmmm… I’ve been really into painting lately. Me: I get really enthusiastic when I hear about what inspires people. Instead of talking about one subject the conversation is now moving toward us getting to know each other as whole people. This first subject is open and safe to return to so the conversation feels loaded. That is the point! All of a sudden we have exciting things to discuss and explore about each other. (she quite possibly will, there is a lot to discuss now)ī: What is your artistic outlet? (or any artistic expression question)Ĭ: What was it like living in a brand new city? (or any new experience question) Now I can pick up the guitar and even though it might not sound pretty I’m happy with how I’ve chosen to spend my time.Ī: Be quiet for a second and let her choose how to respond. When I first started playing music I felt so nervous and hesitant but I knew it would be a healthy addition. I find when I take a chance it is always rewarding. I didn’t know anybody here and it just felt right so I followed it. Her: I guess it is because I love change. These are examples from three different conversations. It opens up a lot of topics that are now safe for both of us to discuss. One power tool that helps overcome this force is relating based on emotion or experience. I like people who are random and weird (I sure am) but social anxiety is, unfortunately, a powerful force. They could have all the desire in the world to get to know me but they have no idea how to reveal themselves without feeling random or weird. Many people are not sure exactly what to say when getting to know a stranger. Select text from message join handle on message.handle_id = handle.ROWID where handle.id = '+19344968775' and message.When I begin talking to a brand new person there can be a hesitancy on their part. Leave the % signs as they tell the program to search for the word or phrase at any location within the message like so: Replace the example text, Apple, with your own keyword or phrase. Actual contact names like 'Jill' are not stored in the db, so you have to use their phone number (if that doesn't work, maybe try their email if that's all you have for the contact. Enter the following replacing the number with the number of the contact you want to search on. Sqlite program opens and gives you its own command prompt. Next run a program that allows you to interact with the database containing your chat messages: If not sure, browse to the Users directory first to confirm what it is.
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